Friday, October 18, 2024

                           RELIGION And SPIRITUALITY


“A true Christian ought to be more interested in making the life of the world gentle for others than he should be in asserting the dominance of his own faith.”  Jon Meacham



Let’s start with a basic question about the “Blessing Business”.  Is it being religious or being spiritual?  Is it joining a church or just living as a blessing?  To be sure, the answer is that it is both.   Religion without spirituality is hypocrisy at it’s best.  Spirituality without religion is being a “Robinson Crusoe” Christian.  (I am using religion as a gathering word; not just the Church as we know it today, but a gathering together of those who are seeking to walk in faith, hope, and love.  We need community!)


Using quotes from Diana Butler Bass’s book” Christianity After Religion: The End Of Church And The Birth Of A New Spiritual Awakening” lets look at this issue for 3 postings.  This will give you time to ‘contemplate’ and respond with your questions and insights.


We begin with a shocker!  Is it possible to be committed to Christ, but not be a part of Christianity as we know it today?


“On July 28, 2010, novelist Anne Rice posted her resignation on Facebook: “Today I quit being a Christian. I’m out. I remain committed to Christ as always, but not to being ‘Christian’ or to being part of Christianity.” She further explained: “I refuse to be anti-feminist. I refuse to be anti-artificial birth control. I refuse to be anti-Democrat. I refuse to be anti-secular humanism. I refuse to be anti-science. I refuse to be anti-life. In the name of Christ, I quit Christianity and being Christian. Amen.”


Gutsy and challenging!  

When our Christian faith is more about what we are “against” and less about what we are “for”, we can easily become a demonic force in our world.  Three quotes which speak to this:


“People never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from religious conviction.”     Blaise Pascal


"You can safely assume that you've created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do."      Anne Lamott


“One religious reply is that a true Christian ought to be more interested in making the life of the world gentle for others than he should be in asserting the dominance of his own faith.”               Jon Meacham


Hypocrisy is a common partner with religion.  It is something we all have to guard against, and work to eliminate from our lives.  And it takes a lot of effort, a lot of trying, a lot of wanting to, to get it out of our thinking and our actions.  In that sense we have to be “born again…and again…and again…and again” before we finally get it right. The issues Anne Rice lists as her reason to leave Christianity are real issues for our day.  The question is, “are we so religious we cannot face them?” or is our spirituality so strong it will face and change the image of ‘religious’ by daring to eliminate the hypocrisy which so easily distorts the truth and hides from being compassionate, as our God is compassionate?  (Luke 6:36)  We dare not hide from this challenge, for it is at the heart of what religion and spirituality are all about!


This is the prayer Diana Bass includes in her book.  It will be our prayer for these three postings.


“O God, make me discontented with things the way they are in the world and in my own life. Make me notice the stains when people get spilled on. Make me care about the slum child downtown, the misfit at work, the people crammed into the mental hospital, the men, women and youth behind bars. Jar my complacence, expose my excuses, get me involved in the life of my city and world. Give me integrity once more, O God, as we seek to be changed and transformed, with a new understanding and awareness of our common humanity.”   Amen

  INTRODUCTION

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Hatred darkens life; loved illumines it.”

                      DR. Martin Luther King

We all must choose how we live our lives.  We can be a curse, that is, indifferent, callous, hateful, self-centered, arrogant, greedy, fanatical, condemning.  Or we can be a blessing, that is, aware of others, kind, gentle, fairish, humble, forgiving, generous, caring, helpful, loving, compassion.  


Our choosing is never perfect.  We all have a ‘dark side’ which leads to being a curse.  (This is why we have a Confession and Absolution in our worship.  We need the constant reminder of this basic human frailty.) We can be hurtful. We need to strive to be helpful. We must never give up on this challenge for it is only as we live as a blessing that the world will be a place of hope, joy, and peace.  This Blog seeks to tell the stories - share the reflections - of those who choose to live as a Blessing.


It is my hope that these words which reflect on what it means to be a blessing, and these stories about how others, famous and unknown, did it, will give insight into how we can do it too, and will inspire all of us for our journey in the Blessing Business.


Dr. Martin Luther King starts the series as he reminds us of the difference between our two choices. He certainly was a living example of a human being who tried to live as a blessing.  I had the privilege of hearing him speak in 1960 and attended a discussion time with him following.  He was a man of great charisma, deeply committed to being a blessing at a time of great racial strife.  

To read his “I Have A Dream”’ speech go to:


http://www.let.rug.nl/usa/documents/1951-/martin-luther-kings-i-have-a-dream-speech-august-28-1963.php


P.S.  As I struggled with the question where to begin this new Blog, I realized that the “Seven Magnificent Words”, which were a series of sermons preached as I approached retirement and later were published in a book, would be a good place to start.  So we will revisit those seven words - Spirituality, Mysticism, Inclusive, Doubt, Suffering, Compassion, and Intimacy  - and see what more they have to say to us as we walk together in The Blessing Business.  The series can be found at the link “In The Blessing Business” on Reflectios.

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